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DEALING WITH AN EATING DISORDER
Recently, pop culture has been treating eating disorders as a dishy piece of gossip when
in reality, they are highly dangerous and nothing to joke about. Below, symptoms of
anorexia and bulimia, and ways to get help for either you or a friend (remember that they
can be male too). Of course, talking with a doctor or specialist is the best way to get the
facts.


ANOREXIA NERVOSA
I will never forget the first time I discovered an aquaintance was anorexic. She had been
hiding under over-sized clothing for such a long time that I did not notice until she had to
wear an evening dress. Her bones shot out, her cheeks were pale and her hair was limp
and fragile like her limbs. By the time her relatives admitted she had body issues, it was
almost too late.

Anorexia Nervosa is a DISEASE. It is not something that will improve over time or a phase
that someone will "just grow out of."
There are four major symptoms: 1. Resistance to
maintaining current body weight or a normal weight, 2. Intense fear of gaining weight, even
though s/he is underweight, 3. Feels severely inadequate because one thinks s/he is "fat,"
4. Loss of menstrual periods (post-puberty females). If you suspect a friend has a
problem,
look for these warning signs, including: *Dramatic weight loss *Preoccupation
with weight, diets and calories *Refusing whole food groups *Calling herself fat *Ignoring
one's hunger *Excessive excuses to eat at mealtimes *Withdrawal from family and friends
*Suddenly wearing over-sized clothing to conceal dramatic weight loss from family and
friends.

Anorexia can result in death. In fact, it has one of the highest death rates of any mental
health condition.
Other health problems include an abnormally slow heart rate; reduction
of bone density; fainting/fatigue; dry skin, hair and scalp; severe dehydration, resulting in
kidney failure; and growth of a downy layer of hair known as lanugo all over the body in an
attempt to keep the body warm.


BULIMIA NERVOSA
The sooner bulimia is detected, the chance for recovery increases. Bulimia's three major
symptoms
include *Consistent intake of large amounts of food *Regular use of laxatives
or self-induced vomiting, fasting or an obsession with working out *An extreme focus on
body weight.
The warning signs to watch for include *Disappearance of large amounts of
food in short periods of time *Evidence of purging, including repetitive trips to the restroom
after meals (or smelling puke, finding laxative wrappers) *Unusual swelling of the
cheeks/jaw *Calluses on backs of hands/knuckles from self-induced puking
*Discoloration of teeth.
Often a dentist can tell if a person is bulimic because the puke
ends up rotting or causing discoloration of the teeth.
Bulimic individuals tend to withdraw
from social activities and family just like anorexics, and may make up excuses for their
constant bathroom rituals.

Around eighty percent of all bulimics are female and it is often associated with depression
and changes in a social environment. Common health consequences include tooth decay
from bile (stomach acid), irregular bowel movements and constipation from laxatives,
inflammation and possible rupture of the esophogus from constant purging,
electrolyte
imbalances that can lead to irregular heartbeats and heart failure,
resulting in death.


CAUSES OF EATING DISORDERS
Often, those with eating disorders have low self-esteem, are depressed and feel a lack of
control in their lives. A history of being teased/ridiculed about weight/size, or a past of
physical/sexual abuse can trigger an eating disorder. Of course, a culture that praises
thinness and physical appearance can make women feel inadequate. Scientists are also
studying the human brain and discovering that some people have imbalances of certain
chemicals that control hunger and appetite.
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How to Help a
Friend...
+ Communicate your
concerns to your
friend when the two
of you are alone.
She
will probably get
defensive, but at
least she will know
you care about her
and also are paying
attention to her
behavior.
+
Ask your friend to
see a doctor or
specialist.
If she
declines and is in
bad shape, you
should maybe talk
with someone else
about it.
+
Do not blame your
friend or act
ashamed.
Avoid
making comments
like "You really need
to eat." Instead, offer
her support but tell
her you're concerned.
+
Avoid pretending
that there is a
simple solution to
her problem.
It's
serious and will not
go away overnight. If
she refuses to admit
her problem, reiterate
your concerns and
leave your door open.